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BlueWaveNeverEnd

(11,776 posts)
Tue May 23, 2023, 02:15 AM May 2023

Oregon: vandalization of the tampon dispensers placed in the boys bathrooms by law

An Oregon high school asked boys to stop vandalizing its bathrooms after stocking them with free menstrual products, according to a Friday email obtained by the Daily Caller News Foundation.

Over the last few weeks, Lakeridge High School officials have said that tampon dispensers were taken off the wall in boys’ bathrooms and placed in the toilet, according to an email obtained by the DCNF. All K-12 bathrooms in the Lake Oswego School District offer free menstrual products for students in order to comply with state law which requires schools to provide such resources in gender-neutral, male and female restrooms.

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The high school provided parents with resources on “menstruation, menstrual products, sexuality and health,” to aid them in conversations with their children about the topics, the email stated. The resources included two videos which explain that menstruation is a normal part of puberty for a “person that has a uterus.”

“Growing Up OK,” a brochure on puberty provided in the email and recommended for grades K-12, explains “wet dreams,” erections and ejaculations.

“Each time that the dispensers are taken down, the school needs to spend time and resources putting them back up in order to be compliant with House Bill 3294 [Menstrual Dignity Act],” the email stated. “We are asking our student body to be respectful of school property, and to be sensitive to all of our student’s needs.”

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/they-are-not-girls-high-school-asks-boys-to-stop-putting-tampon-dispensers-in-the-toilets/ar-AA1bxC97
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Oregon: vandalization of the tampon dispensers placed in the boys bathrooms by law (Original Post) BlueWaveNeverEnd May 2023 OP
Who would have thunk it? nt kelly1mm May 2023 #1
I am not shocked that it happened in Lake Oswego MissB May 2023 #2
Biological males don't actually have any use LisaL May 2023 #4
But trans kids do MissB May 2023 #9
You have them in boys' bathrooms ExWhoDoesntCare May 2023 #22
Road to hell is LisaL May 2023 #3
Teenage boys defacing a bathroom? Sympthsical May 2023 #5
Put a condom dispenser in there. bottomofthehill May 2023 #6
Nurse's office? RainCaster May 2023 #7
OK, School Health Service office. bottomofthehill May 2023 #16
They don't exist, is the point. Sky Jewels May 2023 #17
Our county has one in every school bottomofthehill May 2023 #20
We have that RainCaster May 2023 #21
A person who is menstruating should be using the female bathroom regardless of gender identity. honest.abe May 2023 #8
If they're presenting as a boy and living as if they were MissB May 2023 #10
Bathrooms are designed according to physical gender. honest.abe May 2023 #11
Bras are sold in the bra section. WhiskeyGrinder May 2023 #13
Most stores are separated into male and female sections. Often on different floors. honest.abe May 2023 #14
Why? WhiskeyGrinder May 2023 #12
So when thousands took to the streets in 2020 Johonny May 2023 #15
Know what I would do if I saw a tampon dispenser in the men's room? Takket May 2023 #18
How to solve this problem jmowreader May 2023 #19
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2023 #23

MissB

(16,339 posts)
2. I am not shocked that it happened in Lake Oswego
Tue May 23, 2023, 07:15 AM
May 2023

A bit privileged there. More than a bit.

Fun fact about the lake itself- all privately owned. No public access except for one city park and you have to be a resident to swim there.

MissB

(16,339 posts)
9. But trans kids do
Tue May 23, 2023, 10:28 AM
May 2023

If they’re presenting as boys and they’re on their period, why should they be required to use the girls bathroom.

But you know this.

 

ExWhoDoesntCare

(4,741 posts)
22. You have them in boys' bathrooms
Thu May 25, 2023, 01:10 AM
May 2023

In case the only girls' bathroom is out of service. Some school buildings have only one bathroom per gender inside, and girls must use the boys' bathrooms if their restroom is closed.

Had it happen at one of my son's schools when a vandal attacked the girls' bathroom, as in shattering the toilets in them. So the girls were using the boys restroom until the toilets got replaced. The reason they couldn't simply let her go to another building was because all exterior doors automatically locked from the outside when classes were in session (safety feature), and so getting to a loo elsewhere meant keeping someone available with keys to get her into another building, then back into her own building. Easier to let the girls and guys share, for the time being. They had surprisingly few problems from that.

Sympthsical

(10,735 posts)
5. Teenage boys defacing a bathroom?
Tue May 23, 2023, 07:28 AM
May 2023

Surely this has never happened before.

I am concerned and appalled.

I was in a Safeway bathroom yesterday and stepped over a syringe.

Somehow, that bothered me a little more.

bottomofthehill

(9,279 posts)
6. Put a condom dispenser in there.
Tue May 23, 2023, 09:05 AM
May 2023

It may help slow the stop of STD’s and teen pregnancy, this seems to be a waste of money. If you use the boys room and need a sanitary product, stop ar the nurses office on the way.

RainCaster

(13,209 posts)
7. Nurse's office?
Tue May 23, 2023, 09:09 AM
May 2023

I haven't seen one of those for over 30 years. That was dropped as a budget item long ago.

bottomofthehill

(9,279 posts)
20. Our county has one in every school
Wed May 24, 2023, 12:41 AM
May 2023

The bigger ones in northern VA ( Fairfax, Arlington, Alexandria ) do also. Tons of kids are on meds and have allergies. There is around 160,000 kids in the Fairfax system and there is a health unit in every school.

https://www.fcps.org/academics/health-services

 

honest.abe

(9,238 posts)
8. A person who is menstruating should be using the female bathroom regardless of gender identity.
Tue May 23, 2023, 09:11 AM
May 2023

Problem solved.

MissB

(16,339 posts)
10. If they're presenting as a boy and living as if they were
Tue May 23, 2023, 10:29 AM
May 2023

Then there is not any reason for them to use the girls bathroom.

I wish everywhere would switch to non gendered bathrooms.

Lake Oswego in particular could afford to.

 

honest.abe

(9,238 posts)
11. Bathrooms are designed according to physical gender.
Tue May 23, 2023, 10:50 AM
May 2023

This is simple reality. Its like shopping in a store. If a person identifies as male but has breasts, they would need to shop in the female section of the store to buy bras. Correct?

But yes I agree there should be non-gendered bathrooms.

Johonny

(24,894 posts)
15. So when thousands took to the streets in 2020
Tue May 23, 2023, 11:01 AM
May 2023

Protesting racial injustice, did Coco post what did the government think was going to happen when the police keep killing unarmed black men . . . I sort of doubt it.

Takket

(23,299 posts)
18. Know what I would do if I saw a tampon dispenser in the men's room?
Tue May 23, 2023, 10:36 PM
May 2023

I would say “ huh. Someone must have put that there in case a male with a uterus needs it due to menstruating. “

Then I would do my business and leave.

jmowreader

(52,718 posts)
19. How to solve this problem
Tue May 23, 2023, 10:54 PM
May 2023

1. Weld the tampon dispensers to the side of the row of stalls so they can't be removed.
2. Install crying towel dispensers next to them to take care of all the right-wing snowflake tears.

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